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                                                       Zayed
Abdullah Alkaabi  ( 12.US )

Marriage relationship in the
Middle East

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I
chose this topic because it has a lot of interesting and important things to
learn about that is related to the middle east countries and how families, religion
and culture is different than the other countries and cultures all around the
world it is a topic that a lot of people don’t know about so I thought that
this is a very interesting topic to talk about and how both changing pattern
and life has been changed throughout the years.

 

UAE has recorded the
highest divorce rate in the region. Like in Dubai alone, 1,129 divorces took
place last year- more than three per day. The figure is even more alarming for
Emiratis, who make up less than one-fifth of the population but account for
over one third of all divorces.

So what’s gone wrong?
Why aren’t couples here unable to sail through? The ups and downs that come
with every relationships.

Based on interviews with relationship experts and eliminate couples we have
compiled a list of the top ten reasons for divorce. But if you are in a rocky
relationship, simply knowing these reasons may not save your marriage. So if
you are facing certain complications, identify the problem and work on it. If
there is no way out, contact a marriage counselor and seek professional help.

 

He
said Dr Guttmann, who has researched thousands of couples’ conflicts over 40
years, found that what’s most important for the marriage is that the partners
perceive that there is fairness, affection and generosity.

“If for instance the
wife believes her needs are respected, the relationship is strengthened. If she
feels her needs are dismissed, the marriage will suffer. As with other areas of
marriage, it is crucial that couples learn and develop ways to openly talk
about their differences without blaming each other in order to work
collaboratively to figure out a system that more or less works for them.”

 

Effects
in the kids of divorce

-Problems with relationships (trust issues) Depression
-Problems coping with issues between parents
-Being the messengers
between parents at visits
-Divorce affects children more than that of their parents
-Fear of commitment
-It affects the personal and social life of children

 

What
kids think during their parents separate:

” I won’t be able to
change my parent’s minds about the divorce”.
 “Acting differently to get my parent’s to
work together won’t make the divorce go away.
They thinks like it’s
their fault
they will always have
problems in schools
the prevent negative
affects on your children when divorcing
 -put your children’s needs first-communicate
clearly

 

 

 


I won’t be able to change my parent’s minds about the divorce”.
 “Acting differently to get my parent’s to
work together won’t make the divorce go away.
They thinks like it’s
their fault
they will always have
problems in schools
the prevent negative
affects on your children when divorcing
 -put your children’s needs first-communicate
clearly

 

Causes
of marital differences

-trust issues
-Daily routine and monotony of life
-Difficult economic conditions and labor problems
-Non-compliance with the provisions and controls of the Islamic religion
-Full-time diligence and search for defects of the other party
The unrealism and positivism of the marital relationship and life in general is
intense jealousy by one party, which can be seen by the other party as a lack
of confidence

 

statistics
of divorce cases in the gulf

-in
the university of Sarah in 2011 involved 1,742 Emirati divorced women.

-Due
to the absence of communication which is the major reason behind divorces.

-Absence
of love and not agreeing.
 
-Stubbornness

-Anger
during discussions which leads to animosity
The trails of the husband and not being aware of it
Abusive relationship

 

When
divorce is the best and only solution?

 -In the event of a breakdown of
confidence between the parties and their disappearance and thus make it
difficult to complete their lives together.

-The accumulation of marital differences time after time until it becomes
difficult to solve.

-The use of violence, whether physical or psychological, which loses the sense
of security.

-Exhaustion of all ways and means of reform between them.

 

Effects of divorce on
society?

 Development of hatred and hatred: After
the problem of divorce, the society suffers from the outbreak of quarrels and
debauchery, and the increase in instability, which develops hatred, hatred and
hatred between the two parties, especially if it comes out of the limits of the
Islamic literature mentioned, leading to the intervention of the relatives of
both parties, thus increasing rivalry and fighting and bickering instead of
Mitigation.

Psychological impact in individuals: Divorce especially affects the psyche of
both husband and wife, as well as affects the psyche of relatives in general.
It should be noted that the man suffers from the financial burden and increase
the concern that may lead him to do some harmful behavior, first and society,
It may not work properly

Shake security: Divorce leads to increased deviation and insecurity, leading to
a high rate of crime, as well as the spread of mental illness, leading to
insecurity and thus the disintegration of societies and their collapse.

The homeless children: Children are separated as a result of the divorce of
their parents, leading to disinterest in them, and consequently their
displacement, as well as the possibility of problems in society, as well as the
increase in crime and the level of deviation, in addition to the low
educational attainment, and the children’s mental illness

Early
marriage is one important reason that girls leave school, making it more
difficult for young women to escape the naughty cycle of poverty, high
richness, and poor health. The highest rates off teenage pregnancy in the area
are seen, I hope some people in this Middle East to give the right to their
children’s. More
research is needed for a better understanding of marriage issues and successful
application are needed to address the needs of young people who want to
marry as needs of women’s right.

 

 

 

 

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